Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Sunday, 18 August 2013

Few and Far between!

Life is so busy hardly get a moment to post these days, unlike when we were in CHCH!

The last three weeks have been interesting with a 'whole lotta shakin' go in on' in WGTN. Family home affected and EQC will be inspecting tomorrow.

Today we head off to the Otago Science Fair prize giving. Both Alana and Sam have been awarded prizes for their efforts. Alana looking at whether the Sleep Cycle App for iPhone really works as claimed and Sam for his work on taste.

This week Ann heads to Akl for a few days after putting up with me being away, in Akl, last week and the week before.

We hope to launch a new website for www.place2stay.co.nz soon. We are also moving the hosting from Crystal Tech in the US after four years to Adobe in Australia. It's proving to be quite an exercise to make the Website fully mobile compliant and able to be scaled on any size screen as well as compliant with all new browser requirements. Thank goodness for Errol our resident IT guru!

Both Mum and Errol have visited at different times this year and that has been good. I'll head up there late Aug early Sept for the 1 yr anniversary of Dad's death. We'll have a meal together then unveil the headstone.

In October my Aunt from Scotland visits and that will be another gathering, in Timaru this time, for those of us in the South Island. 

Thursday, 9 May 2013

Comment on the Charities Registration Board's decision to de-register Family First as a charity.

Open letter to the Board of the Charities Registration Board.

On what basis and what evidence has the judgement been made that Family First is of no public benefit?

Family First gives voice to the views of a significant number of New Zealanders whom otherwise would cease to have their views heard and would be increasingly silenced in today's changing society.

The fact that societies values may change does not therefore mean that a certain sector of society should cease to have a voice in the public debate on values in NZ. In fact representation becomes all the more important and of public benefit. Just because a particular group may not represent a majority group, or what is perceived as main stream, does not disqualify it from being of public benefit. 

Family First serves the public good because it seeks to represent those New Zealanders whose views are being disregarded and becoming marginalised; values and beliefs that for years have underpinned our society.  For this reason Family First's work is of greater significance when it comes to public benefit than, for example the NZ Vegan Society, but that doesn't mean the latter (a registered charity) is of absolutely no benefit and so should be de- registered and nor should Family First. The decision of the Charities Registration Board appears to be an anti-democratic one and how does that serve the public good?

Many churches would feel there is much common ground between the values of Family First and their members. Are churches next on the list for de-registration for not being of sufficient public benefit? After all their views, it could be argued, are seen as antiquated, of less relevance to today's society (in some people's minds) and their numbers are declining. (That in itself is not how public benefit ought to be defined). If churches are not next for de-registration, in the light of the Family First decision, why not?

Your decision is a grave misjudgement. 

To say that Family First only invites people to its events / conferences that represent its views is factually incorrect when one considers the broad spectrum of political speakers that have attended such events in the past. The invited attendees / speakers are a matter of public record: Sue Bradford, Phil Goff, John Key, the Children's Commissioner. Such people are from a diverse political spectrum and certainly would not participate with groups whose purpose is indoctrination, as the Board has put it.

Having said that it should be of no surprise that organisations generally do seek the views of those who are supportive. That said I believe Family First can easily evidence its willingness to engage both sides of the debate on a wide variety of issues that affect NZ families.

Charitable groups which seek to be of public benefit must engage with the political process and engage in challenging the debate surrounding the issues and political decisions affecting the lives of NZ families. This does not make them single issue political pressure groups and therefore irrelevant, of no public benefit, to what is arguably an increasingly pluralistic society of tolerance and inclusion. Not that the de-registration decision reflects this at all. This decision appears to be one of political intolerance  and political correctness.

The onus is on the Charities Registration Board, and its decision makers, to prove the objective basis for this decision and to hold it up in the light of other recent and comparable decisions. I put the challenge to the Board to be open, honest, consistent and transparent about the processes followed that lead to this outcome.

It is my view that the Board is there to serve society, and serve the public good, and not to drive any one political agenda. I believe there would be shock and surprise at the Board's decision to de-register Family First from a wide range of New Zealanders of various persuasions.

What recourse, or right of appeal, is there for Family First to pursue in order to challenge this decision of the Charities Board?

Respectfully

Blair Donkin
Dunedin

Saturday, 29 December 2012

Sean goes fishing!

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What a whopper!
Better luck next time Dad!!

Thursday, 12 July 2012

Wellington Holiday July 2012

Catching up with my family.
Rock climbing.
High ropes courses at adrenaline forest Porirua - awesome.
Pizza with Ann's brother David and his family on Oriental Parade
Visit to Wellington Zoo which has and is being developed further every time we visit.









Thursday, 1 December 2011

Never a dull moment in Dudders

Got back from Rail Trail to hear that Ann had been stung. Last time in CHCH when this happened Ann reacted. This time more so - huge reaction in her left arm. The swelling just kept on coming but then we wondered about cellulitis after about 36 hours or so. Off to after hours for an assesment. Yip, they too were worried so IM antibiotics - oh yay. Anyone who's had IM penicillin will sympathise. More antihistamines too, not that they were doing anything. Then today, initially we thought better but as the day wore on no so, back to GP who said, "ED's the place ya wanna be" and off she went. Hours later, and after a batch of muffins (thanks Alana), baths, school lunches, a BBQ, wine, cheese and crackers, oh yes and we feed that dog too, Ann returns this time with an IV in her arm , more antibiotics + antibiotic enhancers (that was a new one to us, we learnt something) more antihistamines (third lot now) and some pain relief (if not for the arm then for the sore bum from the jab and hand from the IV).

If all else fails, you could open your own pharmacy on TradeMe I piped!

Here's hoping this works and we don't need to invest in an EpiPen for the next time! Though we won't know until the event but if we don't have one then we may seriously wish we did. Thankfully we happen to know the cheapest source in the country so it might be a wise investment for $135.00 + pp!

Central Otago Rail Trail

Alana has joined the ranks of the Donkins who have conquered the Rail Trail. Yesterday she completed the full 150+kms from Clyde to Middlemarch. We rode from Clyde to Lauder Dy 1 (45km), Dy 2 Lauder to Waipiata (56km) and then Dy 3 Waipiata to Middlemarch (52km). It was an impressive effort and one I will get her to blog her impressions of and post some photos.

Watch this space for more.

Big thanks to Ann for making this possible.

Who would have a dog?

Let's see, so far Oscar has chewed through the following:
1 laptop cable - on the DC side or he'd be fried!
1 Freeview cable - the only intact sat cable we have, the other was already stuffed.
1 i Pod touch cable
1 Wii sensor bar cable
1 Wii battery charger USB cord
1 set of Wii RCA leads

Most of the above we found all on one day. We now have a kiddie gate up to keep him out from behind the TV.

The fact that on Monday, Oscar, you're getting your balls 'chopped' off has nothing to do with it, but take it as a warning anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank goodness for TradeMe

Monday, 24 October 2011

Out of the mouths of....!

Tonight during a lull in the conversation at the dinner table, Sam piped up and said, quite out of the blue: "I don't know how mums do it...pause...it just seems impossible to the male mind."

Amazing what goes on in the minds of our kids and on this occasion Sam permitted us a brief glimpse into what he was thinking.

Saturday, 30 July 2011

Coldest Day Since 1918 and the biggest snow fall since the early 90's

Snow fall in Opawa Christchurch

We had hoped to visit friends, take the kids to clip'n climb etc. We settled for walks, snow fights, building a snow man, reading, enjoying my iPod music when docked to a very nice stereo and drinking far too much coffee. Our friends whose house we stayed in said their outside weather station recorded -10 deg C!!

Here are some more pictures:

Paige on swing

Snow depth

Front garden Opawa CHCH

Opawa streets

Snow on roof

Snow overhanging upstairs gutters




Paige enjoys the snow in Opawa Christchurch, Monday 25 July 2011

Snow Swing

Home for Life

We don't usually get political in our Blog as it is normally about family news. And this is in a way for recently we were asked to share our experience of fostering and in particular to comment on the Home for Life Program that CYF are running for kids who have been removed from their parents / families. In fact last year we were asked to comment and we declined.

Then in July of this year the Minister for Social Development, Paula Bennet, released a media statement about CYF Home for Life Program, interestingly enough when were approached again. When we originally shared with CYF about the first approach for our comment they, CYF (Child Youth and Family - the government department that operates under the Children, Young Persons and their Families Act- CYPF) instructed us not to speak to the media. (As it is this interview took place about a year after the first approach to us.) The fact that we were told not to speak to the media staggered us! Is this NZ we asked ourselves?

Anyway here is the article for you to read if you have not already seen it.

Here's an interesting video that you may wish to watch as well as reading the article above. A side to a debate that doesn't often get any air time. I don't ask that you agree with it but at least watch it to gain a fuller perspective on what is going on in our country. Our work in fostering over the last seven years has brought us head on in to the centre of this debate as well.
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Tuesday, 26 July 2011

Alana Celebrates her 12 Birthday in style

Prep for the big jump

I am seriously behind in blogging and I appreciate those of you who have said they miss the updates. I hope over the next wee while to get a few more pictures and videos up loaded, with an emphasis on the images and not too much writing.

Monday, 31 January 2011

Fun in the sun!

With a recent spell of fine weather we have had the hammock up again and Alana has enjoyed using it and sharing it with Paige as well.
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Wednesday, 5 January 2011

Uncle Dave turns 40

Despite hoping that in some ways the day would never arrive, Dave enjoyed ribbing those who turned 40 before him – no more now!, we went out on Dec 28 to celebrate Dave’s big 40 which officially took place Dec 30 somewhere in Fiordland.

Below are a couple of shots of the family gathering at the St Clair Esplanade, with Uncle John, Grandma, Grandad and all the kids, for a meal to mark the big day.

 

Saturday, 6 November 2010

Fun times with Granddad

Paige 'reads' a story to Granddad!



The years they are a passin'

From this cute we thing above to a beautiful young woman on the right: where did that time go?!

Wednesday, 22 September 2010

Blair's 45!

Despite the hairdresser and a patient recently telling Blair they thought he looked in his thirties - yesterday he turned 45!  (Personally, I think both were either blind or not wearing their glasses)


Anyway, Blair enjoyed his day.  It started with a requested sleep in, then lunch out with his beloved, Dr's visit to ensure he wasn't falling apart and then finished with a family tea.  His one BIG surprise was finding his present (which everyone contributed to) lodged in his birthday cake, which was made by Alana.  Was lots of fun watching him make this discovery.  Once he realised it was an ipod touch he was like a cat who got the cream - very excited.   





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